I think group members should come together and express his or hers personal values to find those that are in common. Once the common values are found, the group can work towards living out and demonstrating those values. Having established values will allow each other to hold another accountable. However, I think that it is still essential for individuals to retain his or her own personal values to stay true to themselves and contribute views and opinions from these. I do not think that it is possible for someone to be congruent at all times. I believe that at some points in our life, we have to make decisions that don't match our personal values, but may be better for the group at large. Sometimes we have to compromise values to come to a consensus about an action that needs to take place.